From: Stockwell, Lynne Sent: Tuesday, March 23, 2004 11:51 AM To: All Staff & Faculty DL Subject: Jacinta as a role model If conflict was present or not, Jacinta understood and believed the way Mediator's describe respect. She was a role model for me and I will miss her always. A Definition of Respect 1. You have faith in your and the other person's ability to deal with the matter at hand. 2. You have a genuine curiosity or at least interest in where the other person is coming from. 3. You are able to acknowledge that you have a part in the situation. 4. You have access to your feelings regarding the matter and you are able to acknowledge the other person's feelings. Jacinta was a person of good will and was able to act respectfully even if the other person was neither willing or able to respond respectfully. Lynne Stockwell Center for Mediation Services