| away from true self | towards true self
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| Assumes true self is there | helps you discover true self
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| emphasizes sunk costs ("I've already done this so I should do it some more") | forgets sunk costs (gives past respect "this is what I've been doing" without defining future)
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| foolish consistency | ?
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| Hates dissonance | accepts some dissonance as change/growth
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| acts quickly to reduce dissonance | acts slower
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| mindless dissonance reduction | midnful - resolve or accept dissonance
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| dissonance leads to denial/avoidance of discussion of values | dissonance prompts reflection and thoughts on values
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| rules | self correcting mechancism
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| science - appeal to authority | science - closer observation fo behavior, mind, soul
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| religion - dogma | religion - contemplative prayer...
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| you are cast about by the hidden agendas of others | you place yourself next to people and in situations that require you to think more deeply and change yourself in ways you want to.
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| Aspects of situations
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| high cost for being wrong | expectation of some mistakes as learning
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| high pressure
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| low time
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| uncertainty controlled by outside | uncertainty controlled by person
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| Aspects of people
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| need for order
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