Positive Psychology
Instructor: Dr Mark Hurst, Winter 2007/08
Student: Elizabeth Lahren, A00092341
The Gratitude Letter
When I was weeding for Shirley yesterday, I attacked one of the biggest dandelion roots I’ve ever seen in my life. It was the size of a very large carrot. There was no pulling it out. My back and shoulders were already screaming profanities at me. So, I went into the barn and got a big hefty hoe and went to the work of digging the monster out. The hoe broke. I picked up both pieces and studied what had happened…then said to myself, “Oh well, Doug can fix it”.
As you know, I’ve been fretting for weeks as to who I would write my gratitude letter to. I couldn’t think of anyone. I always thank everyone over and over. To write someone a letter would seem odd, and I couldn’t think of anyone that I hadn’t thanked enough….until yesterday when the dandelion murdered the hoe.
As I drove to Home Depot to buy another hoe to murder the dandelion with, I marveled at how much I take you for granted. For 27 years you have fixed everything I use from toasters, washing machines, the roof, the barns, ropes, vehicles, and hoes. You’ve always taken what I’ve messed up with a, “Don’t worry honey. I can fix it!” You used to upset me with that. I never got anything new! But, when my cherished things broke, then you became my hero.
I have never thanked you enough for all the repairs that you’ve made for me for the past 27 years. We have always worked as a great team. I broke it, you fixed it.
Thanks, honey, for fixing everything I have broken. After digging out the monster dandelion, with much imaginary fan fare, my back feels broke….can you fix it? Here’s to the next 27 years of repairs!
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Result: We both laughed and Doug said, "Thanks honey!" and we each got a kiss.