There were many things that I found interesting in this movie. I found the song “We Shall Overcome” something to go into, or his fetish with rocks and the possible meaning behind them; however, the more I thought about what I wanted to write about, the less I felt inspired. You would think that a college student, a senior, would have a relatively easy time figuring out what to write about with a simple movie. Sadly, that is not the case. We all have expectations of people, even those we don’t even know.
In My Name Is Khan, Rizvan is a Muslim man with aspurgers who is held up to many expectations. His mother expected him to thrive with his education, his brother expected Rizvan to listen to him, and Mandira didn’t expect him to go on this real journey to tell the President. In reality, we all bear heavy burdens of expectations, but how heavy is the burden of the U.S. country constantly targetting you for something you did not do? Rizvan struggles through the whole movie to please his wife Mandira and her demand for him to tell the President he is not a terrorist.
Along his journey he comes across these people who have this expectation that he is either or a terrorist, or he is just a normal guy. Every white person in the movie assumes he is a terrorist, while people who are not White accept him for him. Rizvan, exceeds his mothers expectation and does excel with his education, which comes in handy throughout the movie. He tries to get on a plane, but of course after 911 security locked down and they searched nearly everything they could. One of the security guards mocked his journey to visit the President and gives him something to say to the President once Rizvan meets him and rest assured, Rizvan delivered that message. Rizvan was threatened by his brother that he (Rizvan) will not mary Mandira because she’s Hindu; yet, Rizvan broke that expectation and married her. His wife Mandira, tells him to tell the President, “My name is Khan and I am not a terrorist” just to get rid of him; however, she ends up missing him and he ends up breaking her expectations of never doing it and he finally gets to tell the President that exact line. Lastly, though most of the U.S. see him as a terrorist, Rizvan proves himself more than a Muslim, terrorist, or any other labels that can go with him. Rizvan proves himself to be a human being with a heart.
He believes his mother’s words, “There are only two kinds of people in this world. Good people who do good deeds. And bad people who do bad. That’s the only difference in human beings. There’s no other difference.” He sticks with that saying and lives by it. On his journey, he sees a fundraiser for children in Africa and a chance to meet the President. Sadly, the woman who is giving tickets for this event, turns him away.
Rizvan Khan: That’s… that’s $500
Fund Raiser Receptionist: What church are you from?
Rizvan Khan: Church? Church?
Fund Raiser Receptionist: This is a Christian’s only event.
Rizvan Khan: But… but it says it’s a fund raiser for the draught in Africa.
Fund Raiser Receptionist: For Christian’s honey.
[Giving the money back]
Rizvan Khan: Honey, honey keep it. For those who are not Christian in Africa.
This scene is ironic on so many levels. Rizvan breaks the expectation of a Muslim not having a heart and a “terrorist” but still donates his money to this fund, walking away empty handed. It’s also ironic because I do not think turning people away because they are not “Christian” is not a very Christian thing to do, nor is turning away money from someone who is not Christian giving their money to charity or good cause. Also, Rizvan goes back to Wilhemina, GA to help out Mama Jenny and Crazy Hair Joel and all those affected by the Hurricane. For someone who is a terrorist, helping a broken, battered community just doesn’t seem right.
I chose not to use the word stereotype because I believe that the movie goes on beyond Asian traditions, but expectations of a person. Rizvan has aspergers and I’m sure many people who knew that would not expect him to do all the amazing things he did in the movie. It’s more than a stereotype that a person is forced to live with, but expectations of them as a person as well.