If you wanted to know how this movie made me feel, see above
I absolutely love films like this. It’s times like these I wish I knew more about the culture of the characters in the film. This is important to me personally because I like to know whats more culturally based reactions to situations and what is part of a characters design. For example, we are provided with a brief view of Binh’s life before he left for Saigon, a grim half bowl of food on the porch alone and sleeping on a small boat. He is then thrown from this half-life of being told he’s a horrible creature to meeting his mother and brother. After a brief encounter with them (it feels like one day! they got to hang out for one freakin’ day…) Binh is thrown into a whirlwind after the wife of the house he is working in falls and dies. He is sent away with Tam to go to America to find Binh’s father. The very short amount of time they were together really made me feel uncomfortable with the relationship formed. Wouldn’t it take some time to get to know each other over a longer period of time before feeling obligated to help a small boy get out of the country (even though he died anyway T.T)? Is this an obligation to family more of a cultural ideal or is this built into Binh’s character? Or is it just Binh, who has been put down most of his life, experiencing familial love for the first time and feels as though he’s been offered a place in his own world? These are just a couple questions I generated based off of the brief period in the film with Binh’s mother and brother.
I wanted to express my impression of Binh overall. New to the concept of bui doi, I don’t understand the stigma surrounding it within the culture. But from what I can gather from the film, he has been treated poorly all his life. His posture alone tells all, slightly hunched, eyes always looking at the ground. This is exemplified when, in the refugee camp, Binh and Ling have a moment under the broken water pipe where Binh is staring at her feet, and Ling says, “Look at me.” and Binh, continuing to stare at her feet, says, “I am”. I interpret this as all of Binh’s life moments, all his experience with people, he never looked them in the face and his expression of looking is staring at their feet. It’s a really dark thought for me.
The moment when Binh’s brother, Tam, dies on the boat is an incredibly difficult moment for me (anyone sitting next to me knows how I took it. T.T). More to come, but for now…Lunch.