Mississippi Masala

I thought this movie was so cute ! I don’t often see movies with Indian-Americans, so between this and My Name is Khan, I definitely would love to watch more! I really like seeing the Indian Culture!

So I payed attention to the music as the movie went along, which I don’t normally do. I just remember that Chico mentioned it before we started the movie. What I noticed is that there were 2 different types of music played. The first was down south music, and the second was traditional African music. At first the southern music was played only when the scenes were in Mississippi, and the African music was only played when the scenes were in Uganda. This changed when Jay visited Uganda after all those years and he visited his old home. The whole time he was in the United States he kept dreaming about his home Uganda. When he went back, he realized that it changed. Okelo had died. He didn’t know anyone there anymore, and his wife and daughter were in the United States. As he looked at the landscape from his old house, the music suddenly wasn’t African, but southern music. This is when he realized that this was no longer his home. His Home was where his family was.

“Home is where the heart is, and my heart is with you.”

A Tale For the Time Being 109-203

Environment

In the book it discusses how bullying was a huge problem for Nao. She was getting bullied in her school and no one ever did anything about it. When Ruth reads the about Nao’s death and how the video went online and people were wondering how could teachers or anyone participate. Then Oliver says “We live in a bully culture, Politicians, corporations, the banks, the military. All bullies and crooks. They steal, they torture people, they make these insane rules and set the tone” (121).

When I read Nao’s parts I think  ”Oh wow, this is terrible” but never realized how bad teenagers treated peers in the United States. I know that when I was growing up I would try to fit in and sometimes miss treat the people that I actually didn’t mind because we are taught that “normal” is the only way. In reality we are scared because we don’t know what normal really is.

The quote is valid. We do live in a society where if you aren’t “normal” then you will get mistreated. Don’t ask Don’t tell was a great example of not being able to be express yourself truthfully and being able to get kicked out of the military because you weren’t “normal. I truthfully didn’t realized how much bullying is an issue not only with teenagers but as a society. We are just so used to overlooking the situations that we never understand how bad things really are.

Class Notes Date Unknown 2

Malapropism- A term that means switching words around humorously.

Koan- Public Record

Important Players

  • Nao
  • Ruth
  • Reader

Themes

  • Time: Age, Life, Death
  • abandonment/ running away (loss)
  • communication
  • place
  • the environment

It’s our time now (or should I say Nao)

 

Cosplay Is Not CONsent

http://www.laweekly.com/publicspectacle/2013/01/10/cosplay-is-not-consent-anime-conventions-attack-the-problem-of-harassment

The cosplay community has been recently faced with a lot of issues with harassment (mostly sexual) towards many different types of cosplayers. (As if we didn’t already have enough to deal with on top of elitism)

Individuals that have been labeled “Cosplay Creeps” have begun to appear at cons (short for conventions) all over the country.

Click here to view the embedded video.

Things like this have caused cosplayers to stop wanting to cosplay certain things or stop attending cons all together (acutally it’s because of creeps that I don’t go to conventions by myself and if I’m dressed as a character I know will get unwanted attention, I carry a weapon of some sort that goes with the costume). And  because of reaction videos like those, there have been complaints that the female side is just targeting guys giving them “extra attention”. And that is not the case, people of all genders have been effected by this!

Click here to view the embedded video.

 

What is “Cosplay is not CONsent”?

A movement to make the cosplay community more aware of the harassment going on in the community.
“MISSION STATEMENT: To empower fan convention costume enthusiasts (aka “cosplayers”) to SPEAK OUT against inappropriate social behavior of a sexual and/or stereotypical nature for themselves and fellow fans… cosplay is NOT consent!
Description

The culture of Cosplay is one of fun, creativity, and mutual respect. Unfortunately, not every fan adheres to the “respect” part. Cosplay is NOT Consent – and cosplayers who dress in (sometimes) revealing costumes should not accept inappropriate behavior from their peers. Speak out; speak up; and help keep cosplay comfortable and fun!”  - from the Cosplay is not CONsent facebook page

Will this stop the harassment? No, but it’s a start.

 

 

Class Notes Date Unknown

  • Anime that shows Asian/American connections
  • Either you present your blog or a partner’s
  • Shaolin Masters are interested in learning from their students. Bring what you know
  • Learn not to fight before you learn to fight.
  • Avoid rather than check, check rather than hurt, hurt rather than maim, main rather than kill, because all life is precious and none can be replaced.
  • Write about what animal style you would be. Tiger, Leopard, Snake, Mantis, Dragon, Crane.

A Tale for the Time Being: Identity

Identity was an interesting theme in this book. We mainly saw examples of Nao having to question herself and if she was worth it. There were so many things that happened in her life that made her think her life wasn’t even worth living.

-Her classmates hated her so much, they bullied her everyday

-They tried to rape her in the bathroom

-The whole class, including the teacher had a funeral for her

-Her dad kept trying to kill himself. (Is she wanted as a daughter?!)

-Her mother didn’t seem to even have any time for her at all.

-Her “Best Friend ” Kayla didn’t seem to have much interest in her anymore.

It seemed like the only person who could help Nao feel like she was worth something was Old Jiko. She helped her form her identity, with her supapawa. She taught her how to ignore what everyone else was doing her, and move on.

All T…No Shade!

Hello All! So my rock obsessions have jumped around due to lack of information. I wanted to educate more about drag culture in Asia, but I wasn’t successful in finding that much information. So in this post I will throw as much as I can find…at you!

Drag Queen

The etymology of the term “drag queen” is disputed. The term drag queen occurred in Polari, a subset of English slang that was popular in some gay communities in the early part of the 20th century. Its first recorded use to refer to actors dressed in women’s clothing is from 1870.

A folk etymology, whose acronym  basis reveals the late 20th-century bias, would make “drag” an abbreviation of “Dressed as A Girl” in description of male theatrical cross-dressing. However, there is no trace of this supposed stage direction in Dessen and Thomson’s Dictionary of Stage Directions in English Drama, 1580-1642.

Queen may refer to the trait of affected royalty found in many drag characters. It is also related to the Old English word “quean” or cwene, which originally simply meant “woman”, then was later used as a label both for promiscuous women and gay men (see Oxford English Dictionary definition number 3 for “queen”).

Terminology

Drag as a term referring to women’s clothing worn by men has less clear origins. According to one theory, it was used in reference to transvestites at least as early as the 18th century, owing to the tendency of their skirts to drag on the ground. Another possibility is that it derives from non-English languages. Bardah was a Persian word meaning “slave”, which developed into the Spanish term bardaje referring to a catamite. This was borrowed into French as bardache. The French word was then used in America in the American-English form berdache, and was used in referring to indigenous men who assumed the role of homemaker and dressed as a woman, while the wife left the home to assume warrior duties.

Female Impersonator

Another term for a drag queen, female impersonator, is still used— though it is sometimes regarded as inaccurate, because not all contemporary drag performers are attempting to pass as women. Female impersonation, has been and continues to be illegal in some places, which inspired the drag queen Jose Sarria to hand out labels to his friends reading, “I am a boy,” so he could not be accused of female impersonation. American drag queen RuPaul once said, “I do not impersonate females! How many women do you know who wear seven-inch heels, four-foot wigs, and skintight dresses?” He also said, “I don’t dress like a woman; I dress like a drag queen!”.

Celebrity drag couple “The Darling Bears” go so far as to sport full beards for their performances, which could also be referred to as genderfuck. Going in drag while retaining clearly masculine features is referred to as skag drag.

Some performers draw the distinction that a female impersonator seeks to emulate a specific female star or celebrity, while a drag queen only seeks to create a distinctive feminine persona of his or her own.

A Tale for the Time Being: Communication

Communication was really an interesting thing that was played with in the book.

1.There was Nao communicating with the future. At least she hopes she was…as long as somebody would find her diary. And she did.

2. There was Nao and Ruth communicating..sort of. Nao got to communicate with Ruth, without Nao ever realizing it. And there was Ruth who really really wanted to be able to communicate back to Nao, but didn’t have a way to.

3. There was the author Ruth Ozeki…communicating with whoever was reading the book. I thought some of the footnotes were interesting. It seemed like every once in a while a little bit of personality would pop out of the footnotes, versus just being totally informational. It was like Ruth the author was communicating with me, completely outside of the story.

4. There was Nao communicating with not only the future, but also the reader of her diary. She would ask things like “What do you look like?” “Are you male or female?” Etc.

5. Jiko and Nao mostly communicated through text, which I think is funny because Jiko is supposedly 104 years old and most people decades younger than her don’t even want to have anything to do with cell phones.

6. Haruki #1 communicated to Nao as a ghost, and was able to tell her a few things.

 

A Tale for the Time Being: Loss

There were so many examples of loss in this book.

1: Self-Confidence. It seems like Nao lost all of her self confidence and also sense of self when she had to move back to Japan. She was so happy with her life in California, and completely changed when they moved back. It must have been especially hard for her since she was 15. That’s such  an important time for young girls when they are learning all about their self identity.

2: Nao’s Father: Ever since he started becoming depressed, it was like he was no longer there for Nao. There were so many times in the book where she had to worry about him killing himself. Or where she would try to communicate with him and she just couldn’t get through to him. It seemed like he always looked right through her. I started having hope for their relationship when they went to visit Old Jiko and he stayed for a little while. I was hoping like she was that he would stay with her for the summer and they could bond. Instead, he just left without saying goodbye.

3. Loss of purpose: Nao feels like she no longer has any purpose to her life. Everyone hates her. She has no friends. She can’t go to school without being bullied extremely bad. It’s so sad that a girl who is only 15 years old and has her whole entire life ahead of her, can’t even think of a reason to live. I am hoping that Old Jiko will give Nao enough hope to live. I still have about 50 pages left in my reading so I don’t know what happens to her yet!  It seemed like at least through the parts I read though that Old Jiko changed Nao’s view of the world, and definitely gave her tricks to get through the rough times, so hopefully she doesn’t end up committing suicide.