Breaking stereotypes with the introduction of lesbian Chinese Americans, Saving Face shows how people are always individuals regardless of which group they belong to. Beyond the unique lesbian story of Wil and Vivian. There was still plenty of other stereotypes scattered throughout the movie. One being the “funny black friend”. There was additional racist moments that occurred ranging from the dislike of black Americans by Wil’s mother with other similar off handed comments of her blind dates “He’s not white is he?” “No don’t worry he’s Chinese”
The multiple crises happening throughout the movie varied from Wil’s mother being 48 and getting pregnant without being married, the father is an a crisis being a very young man not able to show his true love for her, Wil dealing with being lesbian and having her mother understand in addition to having a successful relationship with Vivian.
Another point being how important family legacy and honor is in the Chinese ideology. Wil’s mother was a “good daughter marrying at a young age, and always put her families reputation in high regard, especially in regards to what her father wanted. Again she would be forced on a path by marrying Cho, a nice man but not one Wil’s mother loved. It isn’t until the intervention of Wil did her mother finally get to see Little Yu confess his love for her and they could become happier, it is also after this powerful moment Wil’s mother is more understanding of Wil being a lesbian.
Linking this to the reading and the movies we’ve been watching this week in regards to film and its portrayal of Asian women and men’s sexuality it was a contrasting point in which the Asian women are lesbian but nonetheless both attractive young people. In addition the two daughters Wil and Vivian are both in the stereotype of being brilliant surgeons/graceful dancers. In addition all of the potential suitors to Wil were either successful businessmen or comfortably employed, there was no group in the movie to contrast the model minority.
If there is a stereotype of doing something well such as Asians being good at math, get straight As, etc, does that discourage them from striving to do great things? The general stereotype of Asians having higher family values and wanted to strive to be the best it seems to put a pressure on the whole group in terms of achievement.
I really disliked several moments in the movie where they forced drama excessively and unrealistic within the film’s universe. One being the marriage cancel and everyone fighting/unleashing their true emotions all at once like in a soap opera, which i understand they might of done on purpose given how much Wil’s and her mother watched soap operas it was still done in a way that wasn’t convincing or enjoyable.
As a whole however the movie had a lot of redeemable qualities involving following your true intentions and being true to yourself. All the different people dealing with their own demons and moving forward gave one a feeling of satisfaction. Beyond cheesy acting and stereotypes in the “anti-stereotype” movie I liked the movie overall.