When the movie started, it was clear that Ben seemed to be ashamed of his family and his home. His friends poke a bit of lighthearted and harmless fun, but are very accepting and even eager to enjoy the festivities and cultural events. They chow down on full plates of food and sit entranced as the dancers dance.
Sheldon’s party ended up being a major turning point for Ben. When faced with the blatant racism from the girl at the party, he has this realization that I interpreted as him finally figuring out that as white as he feels on the inside, he will never be white. He’ll always be Filipino. He goes back to his sister’s debut and rejoining the family. However, he ends up taking out all the hurt and rage out Gusto. Since Gusto is trying to tell Ben that he’s the opposite. He taunts Ben by calling him a white boy and saying that he’s not brown. I felt that Ben’s turmoil over not being white and not feeling brown, is resolved with his painting of himself, his father, and his grandfather laid over the flag.
I think that the best part of the film was when one of the characters, Ed I think, was trying to open the minds of those around him. When he slams the two crazed car enthusiasts with a quick lesson in Philippine history, he really makes and impact on those who hear him.
The parallels between Ben and his father and Ben’s father and grandfather were interesting. I think that for Ben’s father the anger and disappointment from the beginning of the movie that was targeted towards Ben was melted away by his own fight with his father. He is an artist who wanted to go his own way, but his father disapproved and ultimately the band failed. Since he would want better for his son, he tried to push him towards a better chance and away from his dream.