Sue-Marie, I love the tapestry reference. What an amazing maturity you have developed in being able to see the blessings from your difficult situations. I have found that some of my very best blessings have come from horrible situations, too. However, because of my anger, I attribute it to me and not to the people who gave me trials. You also must have an awesome, alabeit expensive, therapist. :) I know that it has come from your hard work, though. Way to go! I also applaud your choice concerning your gratitude letter. Though it was hard for Ruth, this is exactly what she needs, and a lot more of it. You chose to see the positive, instead of dwelling on the negative. We all have our faults, and some people beat themselves up more than necessary over their own. When others look past faults to find the good, it is especially helpful and appreciated.
Sue-Marie,
I love the tapestry reference. What an amazing maturity you have developed in being able to see the blessings from your difficult situations. I have found that some of my very best blessings have come from horrible situations, too. However, because of my anger, I attribute it to me and not to the people who gave me trials. You also must have an awesome, alabeit expensive, therapist. :) I know that it has come from your hard work, though. Way to go!
I also applaud your choice concerning your gratitude letter. Though it was hard for Ruth, this is exactly what she needs, and a lot more of it. You chose to see the positive, instead of dwelling on the negative. We all have our faults, and some people beat themselves up more than necessary over their own. When others look past faults to find the good, it is especially helpful and appreciated.