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Submitted by Sue-Marie on Wed, 02/20/2008 - 11:24am.

John, I applaud you for choosing a male friend with whom to do this exercise.  I notice in my own life, and certainly in the psych literature, how our culture does not support men openly expressing their gratitude for one another.  Sometimes I hear men speak and I can't even interpret what they are saying--like when one guy I know said to his buddy, "Get your 40?" "Yep!"  I asked what they were talking about, and the first guy was asking if his friend managed to work 40 hours that week, since he is a private paint contractor.  They didn't look at each other, and only spoke about work in this abbreviated "manspeak."

 

I have to say, it warms my heart whenever men connect honestly and compassionately.  It makes me feel hopeful for the future of the planet! 


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